What Is a VPN? Dodging Digital Prying Eyes With Style

By Chris Clark, founder of Senior Tech Cafe

What is a VPN? A VPN, short for virtual private network, is an app that scrambles everything your phone or computer sends online and routes it through the VPN company’s server, so the network you’re on can’t see what you’re doing.

Ever feel like your internet activity is under a microscope? (It is.) A VPN puts a curtain over some of it. People like to call it a cloak of invisibility, but it’s more like tinted car windows: everyone can see there’s a car on the road, they just can’t see inside.

Here’s how a VPN works, whether you actually need one (for a lot of people, the answer is “not really”), and which ones we use. If you already know you want one, skip down to Our top picks for the two VPNs we recommend, one with a great free option.

How Does a VPN Work?

A VPN works by building an encrypted tunnel between your device and a server run by the VPN company. Everything you do online travels through that tunnel, scrambled, and comes out at the VPN’s server, which passes it along to the website you asked for.

Think of it as mail. Most websites already seal your letter in an envelope (that’s the padlock, or “https,” next to the web address), so nobody can read what’s inside. But the envelope still shows who it’s going to. A VPN puts that envelope inside a locked box addressed to the VPN company, which opens the box and mails the letter on for you.

That has three effects:

  • The network you’re on sees less. The coffee shop, the hotel or your internet provider can see that you’re connected to a VPN, but not which sites you visit.
  • Websites see the VPN’s address, not yours. Your internet address (called an IP address) hints at your rough location. With a VPN on, sites see the VPN server’s address instead.
  • The VPN company now sees what your provider used to. You haven’t made your browsing invisible; you’ve moved it from your internet provider’s view to the VPN company’s. That’s why picking a trustworthy one matters.

So a VPN is a bodyguard, of a sort. It doesn’t wear sunglasses and a suit, and it guards the road, not the places you visit.

Do I Need a VPN?

If you mostly go online at home, you probably don’t need a VPN. Your home Wi-Fi is locked with a password, and almost every site you use for banking, email and shopping already encrypts your connection. Even for public Wi-Fi, the Federal Trade Commission says that because encryption is now so widespread, connecting is usually safe.

A VPN earns its keep in a few situations:

  • You use public Wi-Fi a lot. Airports, hotels, coffee shops, libraries. A VPN adds protection on networks you don’t control, and covers the odd app that doesn’t encrypt properly.
  • You don’t want your internet provider, or the hotel, seeing which sites you visit.
  • You travel abroad and want to reach services from home, or you’re somewhere that blocks websites.

What a VPN won’t do is stop scams. It won’t catch a phishing email, a fake bank website, a virus or a scam phone call. If you type your password into a fake sign-in page, the VPN delivers it safely, straight to the crook. For those, your best defenses are your own suspicion and a device that’s kept up to date.

5 Reasons to Use a VPN

If one of these sounds like you, a VPN is worth a look.

Keeps Your Browsing Private From the Network

Your internet provider, and whoever runs the Wi-Fi you’re on, sees only that you’re connected to a VPN. Advertisers still have plenty of other ways to follow you around, like cookies and your logins, so this is privacy from the network, not from the whole internet. Our guide to website trackers covers the rest.

Security on Public Wi-Fi

A VPN on public Wi-Fi puts an encrypted tunnel between your device and the internet, which protects your passwords, card numbers and other sensitive information from anyone snooping on that network. Most sites already encrypt this, so think of it as a second lock rather than the only one.

You Can Reach Home Content From Abroad

Traveling but want to watch your favorite shows from back home? Out of the country, you might be blocked. A VPN lets you connect to a server in the U.S., so you can stream and browse as if you were relaxing on your couch. Some streaming services block VPNs, though (more on that below).

Say Goodbye to Bandwidth Throttling (Maybe)

Some internet providers slow down certain kinds of traffic, like video. Because a VPN hides what kind of traffic it is, it can sometimes prevent those slowdowns. It can’t make your plan faster than it is.

Get Around Censorship

If you’re in a place with strict internet rules, a VPN can help you reach blocked websites and services. Check the local law first, because some of those same places restrict VPNs.

Limitations of a VPN

VPNs come in handy, but they aren’t perfect. Here’s what to know before you sign up.

  • A false sense of security. With a VPN on, you might feel like you’re inside a fortress. You’re not. A VPN doesn’t block malware or scams, and it doesn’t keep hackers out of your accounts.
  • Blocked streaming services. So you think you can watch Netflix from anywhere? Think again. Some streaming services block VPN users. It’s like knocking on a door only to find it locked.
  • Blocked websites. Some sites put up a virtual “No VPNs allowed” sign, or ask for extra checks when you use one, usually to fight fraud and spam.
  • Slower internet. Encrypting your data and routing it through another server can make you feel like you’re surfing the web with a slowpoke. Good VPNs keep the slowdown small.
  • Extra data usage. A VPN adds a little extra data on top of everything you do, which matters on a capped plan. Watch out for those sneaky data caps.
  • Illegal or restricted in some countries. In places such as China, Russia and North Korea, using a VPN can get you into hot water. Check before you travel.
  • Free VPNs can cost you your privacy. Running a VPN costs money, so many free ones make it back by logging what you do and selling it to advertisers. Some come bundled with malware, which is like inviting a clown to a birthday party and ending up with a circus. (Our free pick below is an exception.)
  • Paid VPNs aren’t antivirus either. Your phone’s and computer’s built-in protections, plus regular updates, handle that job.

How to Choose a VPN

Choosing a VPN can be tricky, mostly because there are hundreds of them and every one says it’s the best. Here’s what actually matters.

  • Security and privacy. Think of security as the bouncer at a club. Would you want a bouncer who lets everyone in without checking IDs? Look for a company that has had its privacy promises checked by an independent auditor, and be wary of any free VPN that doesn’t explain how it pays its bills.
  • A no-logs policy. The best VPNs don’t keep records of what you do online, so there’s nothing to hand over or leak.
  • Strong encryption. Look for AES-256 encryption or the WireGuard protocol. Both are super hard to crack, like trying to find a needle in a haystack that’s in another haystack. Reputable VPNs usually let you choose among protocols such as WireGuard, OpenVPN and IKEv2, and the app’s default is fine.
  • Easy setup. You don’t want a VPN that requires a PhD. A good one is an app you download, sign in to, and switch on with one big button.
  • Speed. All VPNs slow your connection a bit. If you stream a lot, check recent speed reviews.
  • Enough devices. If you have a phone, a tablet and a laptop, make sure one subscription covers them all at once.
  • Servers where you need them. More servers mean less crowding, and servers in other countries matter if you travel.
  • Sensible permissions. The Federal Trade Commission suggests researching a VPN app before you download it and checking what permissions it asks for. A VPN has no business wanting your contacts.

Our Top Picks

Want to skip researching and reviewing a gazillion VPN options? We don’t blame you. Here are the two VPN services we actually use ourselves and recommend.

Proton VPN

Proton is our favorite privacy-focused company, and we love its VPN. The free plan has no ads and no data limits, and Proton says it keeps no logs of your activity. The catch: it covers one device and a limited choice of server locations. Reasonably priced paid plans add more devices, more countries and extra bells and whistles. Proton is based in Switzerland.

(Note: We are an affiliate for Proton because we personally use and believe in their products. They are genuinely one of my favorite companies in the world right now, tech or otherwise, because of their business practices, great products, and focus on privacy and security.)

Private Internet Access (PIA)

PIA has been around for more than 10 years and was my choice before I switched to Proton. Its apps are open source, so anyone can inspect how they work, and one subscription covers unlimited devices.

How to Use a VPN on Public Wi-Fi

Using a VPN on public Wi-Fi comes down to a three-step habit: connect, click, confirm. Do it every time you sit down at a library, doctor’s office or hotel.

  1. Connect to the Wi-Fi as you normally would, and accept the coffee shop’s terms if a page pops up.
  2. Click your VPN app’s big Connect button before you open your banking app, email or browser.
  3. Confirm it’s on. Look at the top of your screen, next to the battery and the time, for a small “VPN” label or key icon.

Many VPN apps also have a setting that switches the VPN on by itself whenever you join an unfamiliar network, which saves remembering.

Why bother? Crooks sometimes set up “evil twin” networks: a fake hotspot called “Java Joes Free Web” sitting next to the real Java Joe’s. In 2024, Australian police charged a man with running fake networks like this at airports and on domestic flights. People who connected got a page asking them to sign in with their email or social media accounts. He was later sentenced to more than seven years in prison.

A VPN scrambles your data even on a fake network. It can’t stop you from typing a password into a fake sign-in page, though, so treat any Wi-Fi page that asks for your email or social media password as a red flag. Our guide to public Wi-Fi safety has more.

The Bottom Line on VPNs

A VPN is a useful tool with a narrow job: it hides what you do from the network you’re on. If you often use public Wi-Fi or travel, it’s worth having, and a free plan from a company you trust is a fine place to start. If you mostly browse at home, you can skip it without losing sleep.

Either way, the bigger wins are elsewhere: strong passwords, two-step sign-in and a healthy suspicion of surprise messages. Our online safety guide for seniors covers those. And if you’re heading out of town, here’s how to stay safe on airport Wi-Fi and chargers.

Questions About VPNs

What Is a VPN in Simple Terms?

A VPN, or virtual private network, is an app that scrambles your internet traffic and sends it through a private tunnel to the VPN company’s server. The Wi-Fi network or internet provider you’re using can see that you’re connected, but not which websites you visit. Websites see the VPN’s internet address instead of yours.

Do I Need a VPN at Home?

Most people don’t need a VPN at home. Your home Wi-Fi is protected by a password, and nearly every site you use for banking, email and shopping already encrypts your connection. A VPN at home mainly hides which sites you visit from your internet provider. That’s a reasonable privacy choice, not a safety requirement.

Is a Free VPN Safe to Use?

A free VPN can be safe, but many aren’t. Running a VPN costs money, so free services often make it back by logging and selling your browsing data or showing ads, and some carry malware. Stick with a free plan from a well-known company that explains how it pays its bills and has had its no-logs promise independently checked.

Does My Phone Already Have a VPN Built In?

Some phones have something close. Google Pixel phones from the Pixel 7 on include a free VPN by Google. iPhones with a paid iCloud+ plan get iCloud Private Relay, which hides your internet address and browsing in Safari but isn’t a full VPN and doesn’t cover your other apps. Most other phones need a separate VPN app.

Will a VPN Protect Me From Scams?

No, a VPN won’t protect you from scams. It hides your internet traffic from the network you’re on, but it can’t spot a phishing email, a fake bank website or a scam phone call. If you type your password into a fake page, the VPN delivers it safely to the crook. Suspicion and up-to-date devices do that job.

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